Headstones

So I have been looking at headstone ideas of what we're going to do for Brynn and there is nothing that is jumping out at me that I like yet. I have yet to find one that will represent her. I hate having to make these type of decisions. We do know that we want to use the rose colored granite but as far as wording and what type of symbol we want on there I can't find anything I like. I guess the biggest thing is I don't want to use a generic flower or angel... ect. I need some ideas!